There are always two ways to do anything: the smart way and the dumb way. When it comes to online dating, I’m sorry to say that most guys play it the dumb way. They think that it is all about finding the right woman. They then spend a lot of time, effort, and energy combing through the database of the dating site that they joined. They keep reviewing profile after profile until they have reviewed hundreds, if not thousands, of profiles. They then see this amazing woman with all these interests and hobbies that really fit these guys to a T. They then send that person one message. What is wrong with this picture?
I am telling you. What is wrong with this picture is everything. Online dating is not like regular dating. It is not like meeting a good-looking woman at your office or in your college classroom. It is not about focusing on one person and spending a lot of time and energy trying to send the right vibes and signals to that person. Eventually, you would then work up the nerve to talk to her, get her number, and then try to be friends with her. There is none of that bullshit. With online dating, it is all about numbers.
You have to understand that you are not the only guy trying to look for pussy online. You might think you are looking for romance, love, or emotional bonding. That is all well and good. But if you want to succeed in the online dating game, you really need to act like a beast. Seriously. You have to get animalistic. Otherwise, you are going to get chewed up by the competition and spat out. That is how harsh it can be.
Finding dates online is a numbers game. It is all about statistics. You have to position your profile so that it looks good to the right people. Also, you have to communicate and reach out to tons of women just so you can hook up with maybe a handful of hotties. That is how the game is played. If you are going to take rifle shots, carefully select the right woman, and send her a carefully worded email, you are just wasting your time. Why? She is playing the numbers game too.
Unless you have a tight match, your chances of meeting that person, much less sticking your dick in her, is very slim. In fact, you have a higher chance of being hit by lightning that hooking up with Ms. Right. Take it from me. If you want to get laid online and get laid a lot, play it like a numbers game.